It Does Get Better
December 17, 2023
We made it past another anniversary. I’m not sure if that’s the right word choice: anniversary. We made it through seven years of living after Hunter died. The
A moment frozen in time
A mother's memoir
OUR STORY
Why Pink Checkered Shirt?
"This space isn't about whining or assigning blame; it's about facing the brutal reality of grief with honesty, vulnerability, and even a bit of irreverent humor when we need it most."
The heart of the story
The name comes from a specific photo of my son, Hunter, wearing his favorite pink checkered shirt. It’s a moment of him frozen in time-vibrant, whole, and loved. This space isn’t about whining or assigning blame; it’s about facing the brutal reality of grief with honesty, vulnerability, and even a bit of irreverent humor when we need it most.
A story of love, loss, and the strength that remains
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Seven Years
December 3, 2023
It will be seven years tomorrow. Hunter will have been dead for seven years. Is that a long amount of time? A short amount of time? A significant
And… I’ve Lost It
November 25, 2023
Yes, there I go again. I have a million or even one thought in my head, and when I sit down to write – poof!
This Space Is For You If...
You've lost a child to addiction and want more than platitudes
A space to acknowledge the complexity of your grief – the pain, the guilt, and the love that remains.
You're looking for honest, introspective conversations about grief
Real talk, shared wisdom, and a community that understands the weight of your days.
You want resources - not judgment or pity
Practical support, trusted guidance, and a safe space to explore what you need next.
You believe healing doesn't mean forgetting who they were
A space to honor their memory while finding a way to live with the ache of their absence.
Resources for the Journey
Curated links and readings to help you find your footing.
Grief Support
Finding a community that understands the unique weight of losing a child to addiction.
Suicide Prevention
Immediate resources and crisis support for those navigating the darkest moments.
Addiction Help
Understanding the disease and finding pathways to support for families still in the fight.
Recommended Reading
A list of memoirs, essays, and studies that spoke to me when nothing else could.
Let’s Talk
Whether you want to share your own story, book me for a speaking engagement, or just say hello, I’d love to hear from you. You can reach me directly at ingrid@pinkcheckeredshirt.com